Project: Northern Lights

It seemed to me to be a God-inspired idea.

I received the phone call at work, pitching the idea.

Let’s take solar lights to that ‘tucked away’ community that we are reaching out to via “Play in the Park” …the place that I have written about, but never shown pictures of.  It came from a couple in their late 60′s, with indomitable spirits, a love for people and a passion for adventure. She has been a part of our Acts of Kindness Adventures.  He supports her in anything she wants to do! They asked me how many homes I thought were in that area. More than 50? No, I responded. Probably about 50.

When I got home that evening from work there was a message on our answering machine asking if I would call so that we could “talk numbers.” You have to know, this friend of mine only counts numbers to make sure that nobody is excluded.

I called back. She explained that she and her husband had ventured up to that area by themselves and admitted that it was “a little scary.” They counted the number of houses tucked away, off of the paved road. They proceeded to drive around the neighborhood that surrounds the park.  Their observation was that those people were “really trying.”  As a result, here were the numbers:

They counted 191 houses.

Target had solar lights on sale for $1.00 each that week.

They had called their 5 grown kids and asked each of them to contribute toward this project. They all said yes.

Together they had come up with $100.00.

Could I, and the friends that go with me on our Acts of Kindness Adventures, come up with another $100.00?  I was certain we could.

She told me our Salina Target only had 16 of the silver ones. She told me they had brown and black but that those looked cheap. She wanted to make sure we gave the best. She called Target stores in Manhattan, Wichita and Derby. Finally, in Derby, they had the 200 lights that we needed.  They drove there {a little over 60 minutes} the next day to purchase them.

I put out an email and in 48 hours had the other $100.00.

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We would deliver one to each home in the area to “brighten their neighborhood.” They called it their “Northern Lights Project” since the neighborhood is on the north end of our city. Light to brighten. Light in the darkness. Light for safety. I loved the idea of bringing light to dark places, figuratively and literally.

We decided that we would attach an invitation to “Play in the Park” on May 25. It was written in English on one side and in Spanish on the other. We advertised free hot dogs and games. This past Saturday 10 of us gathered at the park to deliver the lights. By now we had about 250 lights, as we had forgotten to add the number of ‘tucked away’ homes  after my friends had ventured out to count houses in a four by four block area.Northern Lights Project - May, 2013 009

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It took us two hours. We met back at the park where we will meet them again on the 25th. There in the basketball court were 2 of the boys that my husband met last month. He had played basketball with them and given  the ball to them before we left. A little girl ran over to them and excitedly told them that something was going to happen in that park on ‘another’ Saturday. Word had already begun to spread and they had something to look forward to!

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We will take more basketballs, sidewalk chalk, kites, frisbees, and bubbles to play with them on the 25th. We will take lots of food, serve them lunch and eat with them. We will assure them that we are all part of the same community, no matter how the lines are drawn in the city.

Will  we make a difference?

To a couple of boys, I think we already have.

Loving the Light with You,

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Pump Cast Possibilities

I didn’t plan on watching anything on tv late last night. I had the news and weather on to see how long we were in a thunderstorm watch as I was listening to it pass by overhead.

The Jay Leno Show came on after the news. One of his first features was what he calls “Pump Cast News.” Somehow they set up cameras at a gas pump in Burbank, California. There is a tv monitor with a guy giving a fake newscast. He begins to ask people questions who are standing outside their cars, pumping gas. Many ignore him. He makes his comments more and more specific to their description to try and get their attention. Once he has their attention, he will dare them to do something for a free tank of gas.

This particular man, Will, was his ‘victim’ last night. The phony newscaster asked him if he would sing, promising him a free tank of gas. The thing is… Will can sing! Actually, he was pretty amazing! From one of the cameras you can see his wife in the car laughing as her husband adds a bit of  choreography to his lyrics. He finishes his song and she gets out of the car. The man on tv asks her if she will sing. She agrees. She adds a bit of dancing to her version of “Sweet Dreams” and her husband jumps in for a duet at certain parts. They were great!

Honestly, I  just wanted to stand up and cheer for them. I am a HUGE fan of The Voice {I wrote another story about that show at http://abundantlifestyle.wordpress.com/2012/02/21/you-have-a-voice/  but I am not delighting in anyone as much as I found myself delighting in and enjoying this couple.  Here’s the crazy thing… they were so good that Jay Leno had them singing with the band the whole hour last night.  What are the chances that a random and mundane stop at a gas station would end up featuring them on national television? Perhaps that’s what I love about this whole scenario.  It shows the fun but very real side of ‘possibilities!’   Many contestants on The Voice have trained for years for this big break in front of celebrity judges and a television audience. They went through a grueling audition process to get to where they are now. This couple simply stopped to get gas! I think of a definition of ‘luck’ that I have used many times through the years…”when preparation meets opportunity.”  I don’t know that either of them ever desired a career in the music industry but they stood with confidence behind the Tonight Show microphones and Will made his way through the audience like a rock star. They definitely said “YES!” to the opportunity that was presented to them!

I found myself smiling and inspired.  Here’s to spontaneous fun, being confident in our gifts and saying YES to new possibilities!

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The Blue Dot Special

So, I bought these adorable hat and glove sets at a 90% off sale.  They were 60 cents each.  As I thought about ideas of where to give them away next winter, I figured I may as well go buy the rest, if they had any more.

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As I walked back to that section, there was a sign that said that all clothing with blue dots was on sale. Infant clothing with blue dots was 70% off; all other was 90% off. When I see 90% off, my adreneline starts pumping and I am “in” for the duration!

One of the things I have in my heart to do in August is a Back -to -School event in an underprivileged neighborhood.  My goal is that each child would get a new piece of clothing… with the tag still on it! That’s what I’m thinking as I start pulling clothes off the rack!

After I had gathered about 12 items, I thought I better go check the prices. It makes a difference in how much I can buy if it is 70% or 90% off.  I get to the register and the cashier scans each piece. It all is one cent! I look at him and he’s shaking his head, telling me that if that’s what it scans for, then that’s what he has to give it to me for.

I get a cart and head back to the clothing section.

The cashier comes back a few minutes later to find me and tells me that he can’t guarantee it will all ring up for a penny.  I assure him I totally understand. I know I already have a dozen pieces virtually free so I can pay the 70% off price, if need be.  I tell him about my plan to give it all away. He was enthusiastically supportive.  I confess to him that I believe this is no coincidence… that God is directly involved…that He has made provision. I call it a “God-thing.” He agrees that God has blessed me!

I head back up to the register with a cart full of clothes. Each one rings up for a penny. The cashier continues to shake his head. A line is forming behind me. Half way through the transaction, the manager walked by and saw the one cent sales. She tells me that when things are priced at one cent, it is a code of sorts for the store to pull the items off the shelves. She is not happy about all the clothing she sees already in bags.

I say, “So what you’re telling me is that today is my lucky day!”

She reluctantly agrees.

Another checker opens and all the other people behind me in line move over there. I feel conspicuous. Part of me feels like I’m stealing. Deep down, however, I am confident it is God’s provision.

In the end, I left the store with 51 clothing items.  Many of them were 2 piece sets – pants and tops for young boys.  So technically I probably bought closer to 70 pieces of clothing for 51 cents. I went to my friends’ house who lives nearby and has been involved in our Acts of Kindness Adventures. I showed them just some of the clothing and explained what had happened.

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May 1 2013 007They were as excited as I was! They took me to their neighbor’s house so I could tell them the story. We rejoiced together at God’s faithfulness. I left to go teach Bible Study but started out with this story, knowing I wouldn’t have been able to concentrate on the lesson otherwise. My friends went back  to that same store and got 19 more pieces for our giveaway!

I know these pictures don’t really do it  justice.  There was no way to display it all.  There are 4 or 5 of some particular shirts and blouses. Trust me when I say that with this one little shopping spree, we will be able to give at least 50 children something new… with tags still on it… for 50 cents!

And speaking of details, I’m not sure if  I told you that our experience at “Play in the Park” found us with many more boys than girls.  And this clothing? Three-fourths of it is for boys!

Finally, those hats I originally went back for? They were also a penny a piece… even with a gray dot!

Believing God Provides in Amazing Ways With You,

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10 Things I Learned in April

Happy May Day!

I am going to interrupt my stories of acts of kindness and generosity for a new little feature I want to start on my blog. The thing is, it should  be done on the first of each month, as we reflect on the month we’ve just finished. So, even though I have another super-exciting installment about God’s provision, I will save it for Friday.

First off, know that I stole this premise from another blogger… Emily Freeman at Chatting At the Sky.   I loved the idea. She writes 12 Things I Learned in _______ (insert month here).   I’m going to start with 10.  “10 Things I Learned” each month is a great way for me to document the new things I’m learning, both silly and serious and provide a unique journal for my daughters. So… here we go!

1.  Abbey Lee Miller never was a dancer. Her mom owned a dance studio! (I rarely watch “Dance Moms”  but my girls love it and passed along this tidbit of information!)

2.  There are 4 Dollar General Stores in Salina. I had never paid attention until last week when I stumbled upon a 90% off sale.  I found some treasures I want to give away and went to the other 2 locations to find more, only to discover there is a 4th location!

3.  I’ve learned that the fruit really is out on the limb and

4.  That my older sister likes root beer. How did I never know that?

5.  I now know that there can be 80 degree days and snow in the same week and

6.  That it’s good to brainstorm and plan, but sometimes it’s better to just go and do.

7.  I was excited to learn that it’s possible to gather a year’s supply of baby formula in 24 hours.

8.  I learned that no matter how many years it’s been, I still miss my mom like it’s been only weeks and that

9. Bouncy balls can be the best.gift.ever!

10. Finally, though I know He is faithful and I know people have a heart to help, I don’t know if  I have ever seen it the way I have in the last month!

May we continue to learn all that we’re supposed to with this lesson book of life.

Learning Something New Every Day With You!

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Generosity That Counts

“Not everything that can be counted counts,

and not everything that counts can be counted.” – Einstein

Most of us have more than some people and less than others… when it comes to things we count. We tend to give when we have extra, or more than we think we need. It is easy to let go of something when we have more in our cupboards or closets.

If we don’t have what we think is enough, are we still eager, or even willing, to give?

I want to introduce you to a friend. She has impressed me with her resourcefulness and creativity in giving.

She just celebrated her 20th birthday.

Last July, she moved to Salina, Kansas. A week later she gave birth to her little girl.

Within a month, she had a baby, got a job and found a place to live.

She doesn’t have a car but she has a mama who loves her dearly.

They don’t have any dressers for their clothes but I have never heard them complain.

She has two beautiful children, a two year-old boy and a 9 month old girl.

She works a minimum wage job to support the four of them and is starting college courses next week.

I tell you all of that, not to embarrass her in any way (she gave me permission to write this!) but to help give you a frame of reference for the generosity that she extends.

Given just the few facts I’ve told you, you may think she’s a pretty remarkable young lady.

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What I find remarkable, however, is that she is always looking for ways to ‘pay it forward.’

Many of us think that when we get more money, we’ll give more. Once we have plenty in our own kitchen then maybe we’ll take a look beyond to see how we can help.

This young woman, and her mom, aren’t waiting for the ‘someday.’

They are grateful. They are giving.

Here are a few examples of ways they have found to give…

  • She received a $25 certificate from her employer in March.  It could be used at a variety of stores in the community.  Our church recently announced that the food pantry had been depleted and they were asking for donations. She gifted that certificate to the church.
  •  Last week she handed me a bag of toys that she had bought on clearance for 25 cents each to be given away on our next Acts of Kindness Adventure.
  • Our local grocery store calculates points that coincide with purchases.  The formula that she needs for her baby, provided through WIC, adds significant points that she can then use for a discount in fuel.  I sometimes give them rides since they don’t have a car. The last two months she has given me her grocery store card at the end of the month, which has enabled me to get gas for thirty to forty cents off.  Yesterday I filled up for $2.84 a gallon!
  • Twice now, her mom has cooked for the Tuesday night meal at our house. The trick to Tuesday nights is that we never know how many will be there. Their generous offering is always multiplied to provide for all who attend.
  • She continually keeps her ears open to other people’s needs.  She is ready to give away the clothing and equipment that her children have outgrown whenever she hears of a need.

I know full well she never intended any of those gifts to be public knowledge. I share them because I think they help us see with new eyes, to look beyond just what we can count, to see the things that really count.

I have learned this from her: It is not necessary to wait until we have everything we think we need before we can give to others.

Gratitude leads to generosity because gratitude always sees ‘plenty.’

So, what about you?  Are you grateful for what has been provided for you? Are you finding ways to give of yourself, your time or your resources? When we give from our collective abundance, our joy is multiplied in the process. It’s one of those things that count that can’t be counted. Gratitude. Generosity. Kindness. Joy. I don’t know about you, but I am loving those things that can’t be contained!

Seeing Plenty With You,

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Layers of Kindness

So, these Acts of Kindness Adventures we keep venturing out on…

they are all about people.

We keep our eyes and hearts open to see those that are all around us.

But, if I were to share a glimpse of behind-the-scenes preparation for these days, I could introduce you to a whole other group of people.  It is a whole other layer of kindness. They are not the ones that you will see in the pictures that “go”, but they are key people in helping us be prepared so that we CAN go.

I have a dear friend who faithfully and beautifully packages  everything I send her way. This time out, I had collected a variety of different lotions, perfumes and body wash that people had donated. What I took to her in a bag was sent home with me in beautifully wrapped boxes and packages. When we handed one of those gifts to one woman she said,

“Why am I special today?”

The woman handing it to her told her, “You are special everyday.”

That’s the power of the packaging.  Presentation + personal contact = high value.

This time out I also had another wonderful group of people volunteer to help package things up. Yet another layer of kindness. They are high school students in a special needs classroom. I have known their teacher for over 20 years and she thought it would be a great opportunity to teach them about giving, sharing and volunteering.  So I took all the supplies and they packaged up kids’ cups for us.  Each one had a bottle of bubbles, a bouncy ball, a snack and some candy.  I recently took them a cake and goodie bags (that included the same kind of bouncy balls that they all had coveted) to thank them for a job well done! Their teacher told me that when they discovered those bouncy balls, it was the best she had seen them play together all school year!

Finally, four of our ladies went to a retirement home to make cards with a few of the residents there. Our gal in charge, provided supplies for them to make a card to give to a friend or loved one and a card to give to our troops in Afghanistan. The idea was brilliant! Include those women in our acts of kindness. Yet another layer of kindness. While we were being kind in visiting them, they were also giving in return.

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OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAOLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAOLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERADo you see layers of kindness in your own life? Acts of Kindness are as unique as you are.  They don’t have to be complicated or expensive. What is it you have to share? What is it you have extra of? How can you notice another’s need and help in some way? It may be as simple as reaching something on a higher shelf for someone at the grocery store. It may be sharing a smile, your gentle spirit, or an encouraging word. Be watching this weekend for who you can surprise with kindness!

Living Eyes Wide Open With You,

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From Our Abundance – Random Act of Kindness #78

“I believe that deep down we are all generous people, but that most of us just do not get the opportunity to see where our generosity can help others.”          - Jeff Shinabarger from the book More or Less

Last week, I received a phone call from a friend telling me that her neighbor was moving and had just put a box spring and mattress out in their driveway.  She said she thought of me. She thought I would probably know of someone who needed it.  I didn’t, but told her I would check around.

I called my friend at Salina Housing who always knows of multiple needs. After placing some calls, she let me know that nobody needed a bed.  However, she did have someone who needed a crib. She ended her text with “how about it miracle maker? lol”  I assured her I was no miracle worker but that I know the One who is.  I also have a network of amazing friends and church family!

Another friend came to mind. Her girls are 3 and 5 and I wasn’t sure if she even still had a crib.  She is enthusiastically in on all of our Acts of Kindness Adventures. I emailed her and she told me that she and her husband were just talking last week about getting rid of the crib and making that room into a guest room.  She said I was welcome to it!

The next day, when I was on Facebook, a message popped up from Salina Area Buy, Sell, Trade.  It was a woman looking for a bed!  Really.  She said she had checked all the thrift stores in Salina and contacted a couple ministries that often have beds to give away.  Nobody had one.  I don’t know this woman but I chimed in.

“I have a full size mattress and box spring if you want it.”

She responded, “How much?”

I told her “Free.”

We made arrangements for her to pick it up the next morning.

That series of events would have been enough to bless me, but a few final details just about made me giddy! My friend and I started discussing that she most likely did not have bedding for it.  After 3 phone calls back and forth, we discovered that between the two of us we had sheets, a comforter, 2 pillows, a blanket and a dust ruffle we could give her as well!  Here is the picture of the comforter she had, along with the sheets that I had:

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Amazing!  If I hadn’t known that God is in the details, I would have been convinced by then!  By the time I arrived at my friend’s house, she also had 2 teddy bears, 2 bags of food and other little gifts to give the mom (and her two daughters) when she arrived. That mom picked the bed up on Friday.

And remember the crib? On Saturday, my husband and I delivered my friend’s crib to another needy mama with a 5 month old and a 17 month old.  My friend also included crib sheets, a riding toy and a storage cubby for diapers and blankets for this family that we had never met. My friend would not accept any money for the crib.

This week, I received an email about yet another mom who was down to her last $3. I was able to take her the money that my friend would not accept for the crib, along with 2 bus passes and a $5 gift certificate to McDonald’s.

It may not seem like much to us, but it all adds up to provide needs and most importantly, to let others know they are not alone.

Do you have things you’re not using that others could use? Many times, it’s as easy as keeping our ears and eyes open to the needs that surround us and matching them with the abundance we’ve been blessed with. You can partner with a local thrift store, ministry,  community agency, group of friends or Facebook group to find out about specific needs in your area. It really is great fun to see how we are all connected and to be a part of a happy solution!

Looking for More Opportunities With You,

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